You see your great guy friend daily at work. Take the same train, have lunch together, head for home together etc. Days pass and you gradually start to like this good guy pal you known for several years. You haven’t got any clue when the feelings developed but you really want to find out what he thinks about you.
It isn’t easy to know how a guy thinks about you if you do not observe his actions and behavior when he is with you and / or with other girls. Unless you have the ability to understand men very well.
Have a look at the relationship doctor’s dating advice where he shows you how to know what a guy is thinking. For now enjoy searching for clues that tell you if the guy’s keen.
Find a good time to ask him out to the movies. Good friends don’t really bother to dress up when they go out together. When he does, you’re a step nearer to your answer.
A guy who does not confess his feelings is usually shy and worried about getting rejected. You could make a prolonged eye contact with him and observe his reaction. Being the guy he is, looking away will be his natural reaction.
A keen guy probably likes anything about you and what you talk about. An uninteresting talk about yourself or your childhood gets him on his ears. He pays attention to everything you say.
Make closer contact with him and check for his actions. Do it with little suspicion. For instance, snuggle up to him in the theater pretending to feel cold. Steal a peek at his actions and see if he breaks a smile. Most guys like such proximity especially from the ones they love.
When a guy is fond of you, he usually keeps in mind what you tell him. He remembers your birthdays, about how your hamster fell sick and where you went (and with whom) yesterday. They are little insignificant things you don’t keep in mind. Test him by bringing up a certain topic and if he recalls any of it.
Last but not least, take a look at how he behaves with other girls. These are ways of how to tell if a guy likes you. Does he give them as much attention? Does he remember what they say to him? If you are satisfied with your findings you can be pretty sure the guy’s keen.
Make sure you are really ready to commit into a relationship with a good buddy. Drop hints to let him know how you feel. And if he’s ready, make sure you keep him forever.
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