I used to really hate the though of trying to get women. I used to think women are a bunch of ingrates who don’t appreciate how hard it is to be a guy and do all the work. Today however, I enjoy getting with women and find it effortless. The reason is a bunch of secrets of discovered, and I’m about to reveal them to you.
1. Caring Too Much - Getting women seems like a ton of work only if you care. If you approach women all stressed out and worrying if it will work - it won’t. I know it sounds ironic, but women are unlike any other area of life. In other areas of life pushing and working hard gets you results. With women its the opposite. If you are too intent to get women, you just look creepy or needy, and it scares women away. What I do, is I treat it all like a game. I know that its a numbers game, so instead of pressuring myself I just make it a fun game. I just go out there, socialize with all women without caring if I get one or not. My only goal is to have fun and make female friends.
2. Hello Old Friend - Women have been conditioned by both biology, and furthermore society, to be defensive and guarded about men. This is why you can approach the exact same woman in the street, and she’d be cold, while approaching her at your cousin’s birthday she’d be cool and social. Women tend to be conditioned to be nice to friends, and weary of strangers. But I’ve found a trick that works super well to bust those defenses down. Just act like you’re already friends! Works every single time! When I approach a woman on the street or the supermarket, I just start talking as-if I already know her. The same kind of an approach as if just walking by to say hi to a friend. The irony is that it always works, its almost like magic dude!
3. Just Being Social - I might be repeating a point here, but you really want to be desire-less when getting women. If you approach women with an intent of “Oh wow, I have to get a number here!” it will just fail. The best mindset I have found is to treat it as “just socializing”. You’re not trying to pick up women, you’re not trying to get women. You are just being social. You’re going around, having fun, meeting people (some of whom happen to be hot women), and you could care less if it leads to more than friendship. I mean of course, you are conscious of any signs that the woman wants something more, and you make use of them. But you treat them more like a bonus, rather than something you must have.
You can do all three (which I recommend) or just one or two, but overall if you apply these tricks you will find that getting women becomes much easier, less of hassle or effort, and it seems so easy and effortless. So go out there and make me proud my man!
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