To the casual commentator, it looks exceedingly apparent that women are genetically wired to be attracted to guys with a sense of humor. All The Same, this is only a portion of the real truth that appears to elude all but the most observant men.

Humor alone is not enough to make women attracted to you. What you need to truly attract more women is a combination of humor and seduction — commonly referred to as “flirting.”

Why is flirting such a vital part of your interactions with women?

Never forget that flirting is the be-all and end-all of your interaction with a women. Without flirting, you are lost. I’ll come back to that in a bit, but first allow me to explain why just being a funny guy isn’t enough to attract women. At least, not in the way that you want to attract them.

It’s obvious that we all love to have a good laugh, and gorgeous women are definitely no exception. Still, just because someone makes you laugh does not make them a candidate for lover, right? The same goes for women as well. All making them laugh (without using flirtatious humor) accomplishes is that it makes women think of you as “just a friend.”

If you come on too strong with a woman, the opposite will happen. Instead of her considering you as a warm, gentle, friend, she will think you are some sort of stalker that she should stay away from. To make a girl feel comfortable and receptive to your seduction techniques, you have to integrate humor at the same time.

It can be difficult for most guys to strike the proper balance between being too friendly and being too overbearing. However, once you become accustomed to flirting with women properly, it becomes easier and easier. Not to mention more fun and rewarding for you!

Most men fully realize that humor plays an important role in having positive interactions with women. However, what most men miss is that humor must be delivered a certain way. Most guys never dream in a million years that there is a right and a wrong way to use humor.

Buffoons are not attractive to good looking girls.

You no longer have to be misdirected; everyone loves a good laugh, but making a woman laugh isn’t all it’s cracked up to be. Displaying the type of flirtatious humor that will make her giggle should be your objective when mingling with a woman.

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