Many a man has has spotted an attractive girl and thought to himself, “Wow, she’s got more legs than a bucket full of chicken.”
Next, he went in for the kill. But a few seconds later, he went belly up as she flattened his ego into a pancake.
He, then, walked away hunchbacked and long faced, wearing an existential funk ten times the size of his deflated ego.
Maybe you’ve had a similar experience? I’ve had dozens. I used to be so petrified to pick up women that I thought I had the words “I’m the world’s biggest loser” push pinned to my forehead.
If you don’t know how to pick up women, then doing so will be more difficult than a blind man trying to find a needle in a haystack.
Here’s the thing: more often than not, men pick up women for their beauty alone - and women are well aware of this. They can entrap a man without making a single peep.
Half the time, even if you find them less attractive than the stench of foot and ass combined, they’ll still genuinely believe you’re hitting on them.
Keep reading because this is about to change…
Watching most men approach an attractive woman is as depressing as a costume ball for demented children. The woman is like a pro fisherman with top notch bait and the guy is like a poor little fish, soon to be chopped up, fried, and eaten for dinner.
Even if he puts up a fight, it’s game over - she already hooked him (although, if she’s physically attracted to him, there’s a glimmer of hope).
I’m also a fish - but an F-ed up, twisted, alien barracuda. Just when they feel that they have me on their hook I start throwing bait at them.
They start chomping away at the bait and, then, bam - they’re on my hook and I’m reeling them in.
Let’s look at an example. When at a bar, I’ll stand in a high-traffic area - e.g., near the ladies room or entrance to the smoking patio. When a girl walks by I’ll jut out my elbow making it next to impossible for her to avoid bumping into it.
And then I’ll bark, “Ow… you hurt me.”
Ninety-seven percent of the time, women will stick their hand out to touch me and apologize with some variant of, “Oh my… I’m so sorry.”
I’ll tease, “You can touch me but first you need to tell me an interesting story or a funny joke.”
This not only hooks the woman into an interaction with you but also builds sexual tension.
When the average man’s groin fills with lust for a sexy vixen, he starts coming up with ways to win her over.
Put simply, she has them emotionally hooked and she knows it. Just about anything they do to impress her, is a sign she is reeling them in even closer.
With my example above, however, I’m doing the opposite. Instead of me proving myself to her, I’m making her prove herself to me. I’m the sought after Prize, not her.
In every male/female interaction only one person can be the Prize at a given time. Two people can’t simultaneously chase each other.
You need to put yourself in the role of the Prize and the woman in role of the suitor working to win you over.
Josh Lubens, a world famous dating expert, writes under the penname Swinggcat and has coached men how to pick up women for over a decade. On his website, you can get free pick up lines that actually work.
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